What Is EMDR and Why Is Everyone (Including Miley) Talking About It?

Our Trauma Experts
June 4, 2025

Miley Cyrus’s Healing Journey with EMDR

Recently, Miley Cyrus opened up in a New York Times interview about how EMDR therapy helped her process deep emotional pain and find peace after trauma.

Got hit with the paywall? (We know the feeling all too well.) Don’t worry—we’ll catch you up. Miley described EMDR as a breakthrough in her healing journey, and she’s not alone. Public figures like Prince Harry, Sandra Bullock, and Chrissy Teigen have also praised EMDR for its transformative power.

What Is EMDR Therapy?

EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. It’s a powerful psychotherapy approach that helps people process emotional pain, trauma, and anxiety—without having to relive every moment in detail.

Common issues EMDR can help with include:

  • Childhood trauma
  • Anxiety and panic attacks
  • Grief and loss
  • Phobias and fears
  • Low self-worth or negative beliefs
  • Relationship wounds

How Does EMDR Work?

EMDR follows a structured 8-phase approach guided by a trained therapist. A key element is bilateral stimulation—eye movements, tapping, or sounds—that helps your brain reprocess stuck or overwhelming memories.

It can help you:

  • Release emotional charge from past events
  • See old memories in a new light
  • Regain a sense of calm and control

Inside Miley’s EMDR Session

In one session, Miley visualized herself riding a train, watching her life pass by like a movie. As she explored her performance anxiety, she said:

“I just want them to love me so bad.”

Her therapist asked, “When’s the first time you felt that way?”—and the train began moving backward. She saw her mother as a baby being handed to her biological parents, feeling unwanted. She then visualized herself and her mother being passed between caretakers, all carrying the same emotional thread.

She later shared:

“That wasn’t mine, it was my mom’s. It pained me for her to carry it, so I’ve been carrying it for her. I do that sometimes. That’s something I’m working on.”

As the session continued, she arrived at a traumatic outdoor memory, but saw herself surrounded by people and even animals who brought her peace. They played ring-around-the-rosie. After that, her stage fright was gone.

EMDR Looks Different for Everyone

While Miley’s session was vivid and symbolic, not everyone experiences it the same way. Some people:

  • See images or metaphors
  • Feel sensations in the body
  • Experience emotional shifts subtly over time

But the goal is always the same:
To reprocess and release painful emotions and the beliefs attached to them.

Is EMDR Right for You?

You might benefit from EMDR if:

  • You feel stuck in patterns from the past
  • You’re dealing with anxiety, grief, or trauma
  • You’ve tried talk therapy and want something deeper
  • You’re carrying emotional pain that doesn’t feel like yours

Our NYC-based therapists specialize in EMDR and trauma-informed care. We create a safe, warm space to help you heal at your own pace.

Start EMDR Therapy in NY

At Soho Integrative EMDR ,we offer EMDR therapy both in-person and online for clients across New York.

Book a free consultation to learn how EMDR can help you feel more grounded, clear, and free.

Our Trauma Experts
June 4, 2025